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    A Middle-Aged Woman's Sex Dilemma
    Mel Bender
    • 4 days ago
    • 5 min
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    A Middle-Aged Woman's Sex Dilemma

    I'm not sure I'll ever have sex again. I joke around about how much I want sex with young men (because I do), and I've shared some saucy...
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    A Middle-Aged Woman's Sex Dilemma
    Mel Bender
    • 4 days ago
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    Drawing of tiger with red lipstick on dating app on her iPhone.

    This is a blog about depression and dating as a mature woman. Mel Bender is a writer, blogger, artist, mental health advocate and self-proclaimed cougar. 

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